I’m relatively new to the BDSM lifestyle. A submissive for those of you who do not know, serves from the heart, they don’t need their master to drive them to do something, they do it willingly, gladly, and eagerly. It brings me pleasure knowing that I have pleased him. But being a submissive also means I am subject to punishment if I disobey my Master.
Now as for my relationship specifically, my Master lives on the other side of the world. And although I have never met him physically, I still obey his very command and even experience every punishment as if he was right there administering them himself. Now because he is my first Master, he has agreed to be lenient in the beginning. But as our relationship and my experience of being his submissive grow stronger, his tolerance will minimize and his punishments for disobedience will intensify.