You meet any different characters on a college campus. People coming together from all walks of life to pursue a career in something. I am currently at a point, in my mechanical engineering degree, where I see the same people in many of my classes. However, there is also a point in college when someone goes from “classmate” to a friend.
Jimmy has helped me through all of classes this past semester, and I would not have the GPA that I have if it was not for him. But never would I have thought that we would talk about anything other then differential equations and radii of gyrations. I do not recall how the conversation started, all I remember was the side smirk on his face when he said, “you know I’m kinky right?” Here I was thinking I only had one friend in my entire university who was about the lifestyle. But no! Jimmy sat next to me all semester and I just learned that we have more common interest aside from engineering.
After that, the flood gates were open. Now the BDSM lifestyle is all we talk about. He, of course, has more experience then me so everyday I am learning new terminologies and what the life of a Dom/Switch is like. Little did I know that there use to be a Dungeon in my city a few years ago. I just barely missed it before it was closed down. “You just have to normalize it,” he told me. He told me to just accept my role in the lifestyle and don’t be ashamed to talk about it. I even learned new things about myself, “I definitly saw a babygirl personality the more I got to know you,” but also brat tendencies. Which makes sense. I submit only to my master… anyone else will get a lot of resistance, back-talk, tantrums, and pouty faces… but at the end of the day I do as I am told.
Yesterday was especially interesting. Jimmy and I had breakfast at one of my favorite dinners in San Antonio, Mad Hatters. We found ourselves a corner table and spent the next 4 hours talking about kinks, rope, roles, lingerie, and even BDSM friendly structures (like bed headboards, gym equipment, and dining room tables). However it was our past partners that took up the bulk of the conversations. While most of my partners are online, Jimmy had subs, mistress, and friends that were “present”. However, looking back, weather it is online or in person we learned a lesson – good and bad – with each experience.
Later that evening – after a few bowls of grass – we decided to take our education into our own hands. I agreed to let him practice his rope work on me. Bondage is and always has been my number one kink. He had recently sent me a website: https://www.theduchy.com/ that gave very detailed tutorials on some rope bondage. Going in blind, he was able to practice the Cat’s Paw Single Column, Prayer Tie, the Heavy Elbow Harness, and his personal favorite the Hishi Karada (‘Rope Dress’).
It’s nice to have someone to talk to about BDSM without fear of judgment, but its even better then two friends can create a safe environment where they can practice BDSM safely. I couldn’t help but laugh the whole time on the fact that I old met Jimmy 6 months ago… and now I am letting him tie me up in his room. “This is was a good Sunday” he said as I continuously talked and laughed to distract myself from the fact that my arms were completely immobilized. We hope to do all the tutorials on the website. However, my personal goal is the hog tie ❤ I remember seeing it for the first time when I googled “submissive” for some years ago. I thought it was the most beautiful combination of rope art and the human body.
My goal is always to learn. Weather it be switching my roles for someone or letting someone tie me up, knowledge only makes me a better submissive. But one thing will always hold true… I Submit Only To My Master.
I Submit to BDSM 