A rope bunny has many different definitions in the kink community. For me, I believe it is someone who enjoys being tied up. However, it’s important to note that the role of rope bunny requires a high level of communication, vulnerability, and trust. And someone who ties up the rope bunny – known as a rigger – must also match that level of communication, vulnerability, and trust. The goal is to create a power dynamic between two people where someone is giving up control, and the other person is receiving the control. With this power, we create a pleasurable experience for everyone.
I make plans to see my rope bunny before tonight’s party. When she emerges from her room, I tell her to give me a spin so I can get the full view. She has on a black 2-piece wrapped around her in all the right places, with chains dangling across her breast in rows of three. My eyes trail down the chain wrapped around her neck, leading to a small moon charm on the end. But my favorite is the chain traveling from one hip bone around to the other. With just one finger, I give the links around her waist a little tug to test their strength. I’m deviously plotting just in case I might need to use them later. She tells me she designed the chain links herself to fit this specific outfit. Assuring me that if the links open, we can use pliers to bend them back into place. Perfect.
When we arrive at our sex party, we immediately peel back all the layers of clothing we’re wearing. The space is warm, the music is loud, and people are buzzing around with excitement. We find a spot downstairs where no one is sitting. I tell her to claim the bed while I retrieve my ropes from my locker. She sits in front of me with her knees tucked in front of her while I begin to tie both wrists together. Wrapping around and around to ensure no escaping. When I finished, I realized how long the tail was so I tied a quick knot to my own leg. Again, I don’t need a bunny on the loose. I do the same wrap-around knot on both ankles and discover she is pulling away from me. I give the ropes a quick tug to bring her back towards me. She scrunches her nose at me in response. I move behind her and tell her to get on all fours. I take a moment to enjoy the view before I start to adjust her body. I’ll need her elbows right next to her knees so that I can bind them together. She looks up at me from her little ball and sticks her tongue out at me. I jump on top of her and start to kiss and bite her all over. She giggles as she continues to test the rope’s integrity by kicking up at me. So I lean over and take one LARGE bite on the left arm before pulling the rope back towards me. We like to call this back-and-forth brat behavior and punishment.
More and more people begin to fill the space, so I give her one last kiss before I start to untie her. A friend joins us on the bed and exclaims how fun it was to watch us. But somehow Miss Rope-bunny hasn’t had enough. She looks up at my friend and offers to be a bottom for a co-topping situation. Unfortunately, we are unprepared but I bookmark the thought for another time.
Chains: https://amzn.to/3OcDa7g
Beginner Cotton Rope: https://amzn.to/48FRugX